General FAQ
The information in this FAQ is general information for couples.
For a FAQ for punters, click here.
Our FAQ for working girls is here...
1) Is it OK to have sex during pregnancy
Yes it is. Have a look at
this article for more.
2) I’m pregnant and unbelievably horny. Am I normal?
Judging from the emails we’ve had lots of woman find
that their sex drive is very high during their pregnancy
which is hardly surprising given the amount of hormones that
will be flying around the place. Some woman do seem to get
feelings of guilt about this, I guess because society tends
to use rather derogatory terms to describe woman with a high
sex drive. There really is no reason for it though, so make
the most of it!
2) Do a lot of men find pregnant or lactating girls a turn
on?
Like anything to do with sexual tastes some men will find
it a huge turn on and some won’t. There’s quite
a lot of evidence to suggest that a lot of men are turned
on by both pregnancy and lactation: Boys top-shelf
magazine Voluptuous regularly features pregnant girls and
receives a lot of positive comments and demands for more
when they do, as does its more hard-core relative Whitehouse.
There are a small but growing number of pornographic videos
and magazines featuring both pregnant and lactating women,
and a number of adult websites and groups featuring pregnant
and milkmaid images. Also, the working girls who we’ve
heard from so far all tell us that they’ve never been
as busy as when offering one or the other service.
3) Why?
I have no idea. I should think a psychiatrist could write
an entire book on the subject!
3) What kind of things do men enjoy with breast milk?
I guess it depends a lot on the man. Common favorites include
(fairly obviously) suckling milk direct from the breast. Many
men also enjoy the site of milk being squirted out of breasts,
which can be combined with oral. A lot of men also have a
thing about the equipment – wearing a nursing bra may
be a big turn on. Seeing you use a breast pump, if you own
one, can also be a turn on, and he may enjoy pouring some
of the milk from it onto you and licking it off again.
4) Are there any dangers around drinking breast milk?
I’m not a doctor but my understanding is that breast
milk is a body fluid and, as such, can carry the HIV virus
so it’s at least as dangerous as having unprotected
sex from that point of view.
5) I’m not lactating but my partner has a bit of thing
for it. Anything I can do?
You could try experimenting with pouring milk over your breasts,
body and partner. Cow milk is quite often used for the purpose,
but the closest approximation to breast milk that I’ve
found is coconut milk! Another idea is to squirt a bit of
whipped cream on to your nipples to simulate the sight of
milk leaking from them. It is also possible to induce lactation,
though it is a major undertaking. Have a look at this
article for more.
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